Wednesday, January 7, 2009

The Compact, Superflous Buns, and Colorful Living

Since I have been conducting a not-buying-stuff experiment (today is day #20-something and I'm not counting anymore), I am saying this post is about compacting. Really though, it's just the way I ideally want to live: reusing things, being crafty, etc. in order to meet needs and keeping my cash moneys for my own enjoyable pursuits.

Here's a good little explanation from Paul McFedries Word Spy:

"You're not really spending money when you spend money, Joe and Vicki say. You're spending the life energy you put into earning that money. You only have so much life energy. What do you want to use it for? Commuting? Shopping sprees? Going for walks? Playing with your children? Serving your community? Taking that question seriously does wonders for one's joy-to-stuff ratio, decreasing stuff, increasing joy.—Donella H. Meadows, "One woman's search for the American dream," The News & Record, July 17, 1995
Whee! Good stuff. I have been really turned off by reading accounts of people who join The Compact or embark on some other similar plan to reduce traditional consumption standards, then spend the next year of their lives complaining about the lack of iced mochas and new jeans in their lives! It's not about martyrdom or being miserable...it's supposed to free you from worrying about superfluous crap! (Please raise your hand if you love the scene in Father of The Bride where Steve Martin has a meltdown about superfluous buns).


What I have learned thus far, and what I intend to stick to is:

1. I can make, reuse, or extend the life of a great many things at home if I just take the time. Example: my fancypants Lush shampoo bar fell apart. Instead of smooshing it down the drain or starting a new bar just yet, I cut up a bath poof/puff/thing that someone gave me as a gift and made a little shampoo bar bag. Yay!!

2. I can think about how long it takes me to earn the cost of an item, and then see if it's worth it to me. Example: I needed more cloth napkins to make it through the week at our house without washing like a maniac. Ebay or garage sales for a bunch of used cloth napkins is certainly more eco-friendly and budget-friendly than either buying cloth napkins new or plowing through untold rolls of paper towels (no, no, no!). Taking the time to find some old scraps of fabric in my cabinet and cut nice square napkins= even better.


3. I still love Etsy with a fiery passion, but have realized that I do not need to order something adorable and wonderful every single week. Etsy, outside of homemade treats, is still gonna be my go-to for nice gifts.

Lastly for today, being thoughtful about your money and deliberate in your choices does not, repeat DOES NOT, mean you have to be boring. I love creating a colorful, comfortable, fun, good-smelling, moderately rebellious, and love-ful life. Cultivating a diehard respect for people (myself included), animals, and the environment only makes it all better.

9 comments:

Gina said...

Yeah, I have to remind myself about the opportunity cost of stuff when I'm buying also. I'm glad this is going so well for you!

I love Etsy too, I got a bunch of Christmas presents from there :)

Vaishali said...

Great idea, Pixiepine. I am always working to reduce my use of "stuff" and although it can seem hard at the beginning, it's amazing how many of the things we think we can't live without are actually superfluous. Good luck with your experiment!

Darb said...

Sorry I busted up your fancy pants soap! My hair is to hard for it! Glad I saved you the pieces though!!

Vegan_Noodle said...

Oh, I love this post! YOu make some really good points. Cloth napkins are on my list of things to make.

And I'm definitely raising my hand... I loved that scene!

Jen aka Jewbacca said...

well said, pixie. again you inspire me so much.

xo jewy

Mihl said...

Thank you so much for this post! All of your ideas are very helpful.

Bianca said...

Good for you! I can't make it three days without a trip to Kroger for some little something — usually cat litter.

I should really start using cloth napkins instead of paper towels now that I finally have a washer and dryer.'

Oh, and I LOVE LUSH too! We got our own Lush store in Memphis last year and it was such a godsend.

pixiepine said...

Accidently deleted this one...but I'm putting it back :)

allularpunk:

i've been trying like mad to not buy things for no reason, myself. i've been doing pretty well, actually (i used to be quite the compulsion shopper). so i like this idea. i also LOVE that scene from father of the bride. it's always something i could see my own father doing (the man who taught me to split up bags of produce at the grocery store).

Sal said...

I'm raising my hand - the superfluous buns scene cracks me up every time!!

Love your tip about the shampoo bars, Once mine cracks into pieces I use each tiny piece until I absolutely HAVE to go buy a new one!! hehe.

I'm terrible with shopping - I could happily go food shopping every day, whether I need to or not, which is why my cupboards and freezer are so full of crap I'll never use!